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- In Conclusion
- Should You Make Up For Lost Time?
- 3 Instances of Forcing God’s Plan
- Blame and Responsibility in the Matter of Your Deconversion
- 3 Instances of Reckless Behavior (Inspired By God) Part 2
- Missionaries in Ch!na
- 3 Instances of Reckless Behavior (Inspired By God)
- Remembering #WakeUpOlive
- “Marrying Up”
- 3 EVEN MORE Positive, Masculine Hobbies for Recently Deconverted Men
- The Hated Christian
- The History of The Deconverted Man
- Levels of Curiosity Before, During, and After Deconstruction
- My (Old) Prayer Life
- Translating “Christianese” and Exploring its Troubling Implications Part 3
- The Doctor Who Puts Christian Missionaries to Shame
- 3 MORE Positive, Masculine Hobbies for Recently Deconverted Men
- Matt Chandler Slides Into the DMs
- You Can’t Afford to be Close-Minded
- 3 Types of Men To Bring Into Your Life After Leaving Religion
- My Review of the Documentary Beware of Christians
- 3 Positive, Masculine Hobbies for Recently Deconverted Men
- Pride & The Deconverted Man
- 3 Things That Prove the Church is Fading Away
- Smarter & Wiser People Might Not Bother With You
- 3 Things I Was Ashamed to NOT Like As a Christian
- The Christian God—Masculinity Out of Balance
- One of the Biggest Issues With Religion (That’s Rarely Talked About)
- Should You Get Rid of Your Old Journals?
- The Real Shit Youth Pastors Deal With
- 5 Films Christian Men Love (And Why)
- Altar Calls and Manipulation
- The Mandela Effect and the Bible
- Is Casual Dating Actually Harmful Like the Church Warned?
- My Interview With The (Other) Deconverted Man
- 3 Ways Purity Culture Harms Men Part 4
- What Christians Say; What Christians Mean
- How My Belief in Christianity Slowly Fell Away
- Affording Your New, Post-Religion Life
- Do You Belong? Are You Home?
- Deconstructing Masculinity
- Not Everything Can Be Explained Simply, And That’s Okay
- Porn & The Deconverted Man
- My Thoughts on Episode 3 of Hillsong: A Megachurch Exposed
- There Are Never Just a Few “Bad Apples”
- My Thoughts on Episode 2 of Hillsong: A Megachurch Exposed
- 4 Reasons Men Should Delay Marriage
- You’re Probably Avoiding the Truth
- My Thoughts on Episode 1 of Hillsong: A Megachurch Exposed
- Masculinity Needs to Be Balanced, Not Suppressed
- The Trap of Hyper Rationality
- One of the Best Qualities of Men (And How It’s Exploited)
- 3 EVEN MORE Ways Purity Culture Harms Men
- Was Your Decision to Get Married a Conscious One?
- Why I Suppressed My Emotions as a Deconverted Man
- See You At the Pole
- 4 Positive Masculine Behaviors (That the Church Doesn’t Like)
- What It Means to Raise Your Consciousness
- Christian Men and War: Preoccupied with Conflict, Violence, and Aggression
- Plant Churches, Get Laid—Examining the Association of Related Churches
- Marriage Isn’t About Your Happiness
- Waiting On God
- The Difference Between “The Truth” and “Your Truth”
- Why Are Men Drawn to Christianity?
- My Take on Christian Musician John Cooper “Declaring War” on the Deconstruction Movement
- NASA Launches the James Webb Space Telescope; Theologians Consulted About Alien Life
- Is Evangelical Christianity a Masculine Lifestyle?
- I Almost Went to Christmas Eve Service
- Youth Group Pimp
- Intuition & The Deconverted Man
- Authority & The Deconverted Man Part 2
- 3 Things I Was Ashamed to Like As a Christian
- Why Respect Beliefs?
- Quick Rebounds in Christian Relationships
- Kaizen & The Deconverted Man
- My Response to The Gospel Coalition’s “4 Causes of Deconstruction” Article
- 3 “Missions” Given By the Church (And Why They Aren’t Real Missions)
- Goals & Resolutions For Deconstruction
- Did Astrology Predict the End of Christianity?
- When Church Leaders Who Harmed You Are Not Punished
- Atheism Isn’t the Only Option
- Your Friends Determine the Direction and Quality of Your Life
- Christian Relationships Are Curious Things
- Finding “Your People”?
- Are Pastor Downfalls Inevitable?
- When is it Time to Move on From Deconstruction?
- 3 Times I Lost Respect For Pastors
- We Get to Choose Our Family
- 4 Dangers of Fundamentalism
- Opinions of Others & The Deconverted Man
- Deconstructing Culture
- Complacency & Christianity
- Simulation Theory & The Deconverted Man
- 3 Reasons Sexual Compatibility Matters
- Translating “Christianese” and Exploring its Troubling Implications Part 2
- The Dangers of Ignorance
- Anger & The Deconverted Man
- A Million Miles in a Thousand Years
- How to Choose a Mentor From Afar
- How I Left My Church
- Who CAN You Help Deconvert?
- My Baptism Apparently Wasn’t Good Enough
- Pastors Are Talking About Deconstruction (And It Isn’t Well Received)
- 3 Possible Reactions When You Leave the Church
- A Knowledge Differential Creates a Power Differential
- The Right Thing is the Often Hardest Thing to Do
- Thoughts on My Grandfather’s Passing
- You Don’t Need a God to Have a Religion
- When Your Religious Family Doesn’t Ask About Your Deconstruction
- My Church Tried to Cancel Sunday School
- Leaving Religion Means Taking Personal Responsibility
- Relationships & “God’s Timing”
- Hillsong’s Brian Houston Charged For Failing to Report His Father’s Crimes
- God Made Me Afraid to Be a First Born Son
- Why Have a Metaphorical View of the Bible?
- You Cannot Control Anyone
- Faith Deconstruction and The Hero’s Journey
- The Stigma of Older, Unmarried Men in the Church
- A Tale of Two Evangelists
- The Importance of Patterns
- What is Spirituality?
- Mission Trips Only Serve the Missionary
- Authority & The Deconverted Man
- The Importance of a Healthy Sex Life
- Live Your Life Like the Video Games You Play
- Why Men?
- Are You Hesitant to Question Your Faith?
- How To Build a New (and Better) Community of Friends as a Deconverted Man
- Side Hustles and the Deconverted Man
- Masculinity & Femininity
- A Baton Rouge Megachurch Leadership Program Accused of Abuse and Being “Cult-Like”
- 3 Reasons Men Fear Divorce
- Christians and “Hustle Culture”
- Dating as a Deconverted Man
- Mental Health & Faith Deconstruction
- Testosterone & The Deconverted Man
- Pastors & Politicians
- The Singular Church Approved Relationship Model
- Christian Leaders are Deconverting in Droves
- 3 MORE Ways Purity Culture Harms Men
- What It Means to Be in Alignment
- Why the Church Tries to Control Female Sexuality
- Mentors
- An Atheist Life Well Lived
- Josh Duggar Has Done It Again
- Sexual Dysfunction & the Deconverted Man
- The Most Recent Attempt to Convert Me
- Physical Strength and Faith Deconstruction
- How the Perspectives Class Almost Saved My Faith
- Why the Church Thinks Men Can’t Control Their Lust
- Those Who Don’t Like Being Questioned Should Be Questioned More
- 3 Ways Churches Financially Abuse Their Members
- 3 Reactions to Religious Teachings
- 5 Types of Guys You Find in Church
- Reexamining Selfishness
- How Men Help Each Other Grow
- Why It’s a Good Thing “The One” Doesn’t Exist
- The Church Was Right About Thought Life
- When Christians Complain About Their Hard Marriage
- Why You Should Still Have a Quiet Time
- Why Christianity Hooks You
- How to Handle Group Prayer Situations
- The Most Common “Sins” That Pastors Confess
- Travel Will Help You Deconvert
- There is No Shame in Divorce
- Being “Missional”
- Translating “Christianese” and Exploring its Troubling Implications
- Removing Church Leaders From Their Pedestal
- Your 2 Most Important Assets
- 3 Ways Christians Avoid Responsibility
- Fitting a Square Peg God Into the Round Hole of Life
- 3 Ways Purity Culture Harms Men
- Fear Makes Religion Powerful
- 7 Ways Religion Damages Your Life
- If You Can Deconstruct Your Faith, Then You Can Deconstruct Everything Else
- 3 Ways Religion Damages Your Spirituality
- An Open Letter To Christians Who Thought Trump Would Remain President
- 3 Ways Religion Damages Your Family Part 2
- How the Church Screws Over Creative People
- 3 Ways Religion Damages Your Family Part 1
- Truth
- 3 Ways Religion Damages Your Relationships
- My Brief Liberal Christian Phase
- When Sermons Try to Force An Application To Daily Life
- The Story of My One Attempt at Miracle Healing
- When Gaining New Knowledge, Go Deep, But Also Go Wide
- The Kingdom of Heaven is (Still) Within
- Connecting the Dots—The Most Underrated Skill You Learned As a Child
- Read a Book!
- How To View Attachments In Your Life
- Jesus’s Crucifixion Wasn’t a Real Sacrifice
- The Church Urges Men to Marry Way Too Young
- The Church Is a Business
- Is Your Happiness Built On Solid Ground?
- Christianity and the Law of Attraction
- 3 Ways Religion Damages Your Financial Life
- You Must Invest In Yourself Before You Can Help Others
- Your Mission
- You Actually Vote Every Single Day of Your Life
- 3 Ways Religion Damages Your Hobbies
- When the Answer is Always “Jesus”
- 3 Ways Religion Damages Your Social Life
- 3 Ways Religion Damages Your Health
- Curiosity: The Greatest Tool For A Deconverted Man
- The 4 Most Common Reasons People Deconvert
- Thinking Christians VS Feeling Christians
- Jesus & the 7 Life Areas
- New Book Out Now!
- The Strangest Thought Pattern of My Christian Years
- Your Deconversion Story Is Your New Testimony
- Your Life Should Ultimately Improve After Your Deconversion